ToddTalks--Spirit By Design: Your Weekly Survival Guide
ToddTalks--Spirit By Design is for those of you who desire to increase your spiritual wellness, utilize spiritual gifts, and overcome spiritual obstacles. If you struggle to maintain your spirituality, your beliefs, your testimony, in this chaotic world, come listen in and learn some things that can change your life.
Maybe you can't make it to church due to your responsibilities whatever they may be. Maybe you struggle with your Testimony or beliefs and are looking for help. Maybe you just need someone to give you ideas on how to build and strengthen your faith. This podcast is to help you design your spiritual life. Spirit by Design means you are in charge of your life. You surrender it to God and allow him to help you design the life you desire. By developing and strengthening your spiritual side, you will find peace, joy and serenity in this chaotic world that is only getting worse.
Right and wrong didn’t disappear. We just started treating them like opinions, and that shift is costing us more than we realize. We dig into why a moral code matters more in 2026 than it did for previous generations, because today we have more technology, more anonymity, more influence, and more ways to do something wrong while convincing ourselves it’s fine.
We connect the dots between freedom and character through the lens of America’s Founders, including the blunt warning from John Adams that the Constitution depends on a moral and religious people. Laws can punish theft, but they can’t manufacture honesty, generosity, or self-control. When personal morality fades, we keep stacking rules and enforcement to compensate, and we still end up asking the same uncomfortable question: what happens when we expect government to replace self-government?
From a Christian perspective, we turn to scripture and the Book of Mormon to argue that agency is always taking us somewhere liberty or captivity, life or death. We challenge the “if it feels right, it must be right” mindset, talk about discernment in a world of deepfakes and information overload, and lay out seven modern moral battlegrounds from integrity and sexual purity to words, money, power, and self-control. We also share “Ten Commandments for modern life” as practical, grounded commitments to help you govern yourself before something else governs you.
If you found this meaningful, subscribe, share it with someone who’s been wrestling with moral confusion, and leave a five-star review so more people can find the show.
When right and wrong become optional, let's talk about why we need a moral code more than ever. A society doesn't lose its freedom all at once. It loses the moral foundation that makes freedom sustainable. We live in an age where almost everything can be debated, including things previous generations considered fundamental truths. What is right, what is wrong, what is truth, what makes a good man, what makes a good society? And perhaps the most dangerous answer of all is whatever you decide is right for you. Truth exists outside of us. Morality is not something we invent, it is something we discover, accept, and live. This is Todd Talk, Spirit by Design, where I help you design your spiritual life so that you will be prepared for the second coming of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Let me ask you a question. What happens to a civilization when people stop believing there is such a thing as right and wrong? Not unpopular, not inconvenient, not politically correct, and I hate politically incorrect, but actually wrong. What happens when morality becomes nothing more than a personal preference? When we start saying, that's your truth, this is my truth. Who are you to judge? As long as nobody gets hurt. If it feels right, it must be right. At first, that sounds like freedom, but there's a problem. Freedom without morality eventually destroys the very freedom we're trying to protect. And here's what I want to explore today on Todd Talks. Why do we need a moral code in 2026 more than perhaps any other time in our lives? The answer? Because we have more freedom, more technology, more information than any generations before. More influence, more access, more anonymity. Anonymity is kind of a key point. More ability than ever before to do something wrong
and convince ourselves that it is right. The founding fathers understood the moral foundation of freedom. One of the biggest mistakes we make when talking about America's founding is assuming that our founding fathers believed government alone could preserve liberty. They didn't. They understood something much deeper. A free government requires a moral people. John Adams famously warned, our constitution was made only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate to the government of any other. That is an extraordinary statement. He was saying the Constitution depends upon morality already existing in the people. They were God-fearing men. They were men raised on the Bible. They weren't perfect, they had issues, but they understood morality. So morality already existing in people, that's a fundamentally different idea. The government can establish laws, but it cannot make you honest. It can punish theft, but it can't make you generous. It can prohibit murder, but it cannot make you love your neighbor and not want to kill them. It can create consequences, but it cannot create your character. That's where the gospel enters into the conversation. In his farewell address, George Washington warned about the importance of religion and morality to political prosperity. He wrote, of all the dispositions and habits which lead to political prosperity, religion and morality are indispensable supports. Think about that. Indispensable. What do we hear today? Separation of church and state. Religion is old fashioned. Morality is old fashioned. Our founding fathers said that religion and religion and morality were indispensable to support our way of life and constitution. Not optional, not merely useful, but indispensable. Washington understood that laws are ultimately dependent upon the character of the people living under those laws. And this creates an uncomfortable question for us.
What happens when we expect laws to compensate for the loss of personal morality? We keep adding rules, more regulation, more surveillance, more institution, more enforcement. But eventually we discover something. Look what's happened in California. California said they have the law, no shoplifting, no theft, right? But their governor came out and said that several years ago, we will not punish you for any thefts below $900. You know how many stores have closed because of shoplifting? Areas where Walmart has pulled out, Walmart has pulled out of many urban areas because the theft is so high. Character has to be cultivated inside the individual. In
2 Nephi 2 27, we read, Wherefore men are free according to the flesh, and all things are given them which are expedient unto man. And they are free to choose liberty and eternal life, or to choose captivity and death. Lehi doesn't describe freedom as do whatever you want. Freedom is the ability to choose between competing paths. Liberty, captivity, life and death, righteousness and wickedness. Freedom isn't the absence of consequences. Freedom is the ability to choose your response to truth and consequences. That's why morality matters, because every choice is taking us somewhere. And consequences always come. Good or bad. The great deception. If it feels right, it must be right. That's a big deception. That's a lie Satan tells. And he's got so many people believing it. If it feels right to me, it must be right, he says. But scripture has been warning us about this for thousands of years. Isaiah 5.20. Woe unto them that call evil good and good evil. Isaiah doesn't say, woe unto them who disagree with me. He says, those that call evil good. The implication is deep. There's a difference between what we believe is right and what actually is right. That's why we need revelation. That's why we need scripture. That's why we need prophets. Because sometimes, often, our feelings lie to us. You see, your feelings can cause you to believe things that are not true. Morality requires a standard to be set that is outside of ourselves. If morality is completely subjective, what makes anything truly wrong? If society decides something is acceptable, does that automatically make it moral? History would tell us no. There have been societies that normalize slavery, genocide, corruption, abuse of power, infidelity, child exploitation, religious persecution. Heck, our society tries to normalize murder of babies. Yes, abortion is the murder of babies. I'm not going to sugarcoat that one. It's not choice, it's murder. The fact that a culture accepts something doesn't make it righteous. That's why the gospel gives us something incredibly important. A standard. A standard which is outside of ourselves. God doesn't say you decide what is true. He says, I am the way, the truth, and the light. John 14, 6. God isn't simply offering suggestions, he's telling you the rules. He gave us commandments. He gave us revelations. He gave us a set of conditions that are inviolate. They are commandments. They're basically things that we know in our hearts to be true. They're standards. He gave us standards of living. President Russell M. Nelson has repeatedly taught that discipleship requires deliberate choices and covenant living. A powerful principle from his teachings is that we cannot separate our identity as disciples from the choices we make. Elder Jeffrey R. Holland has repeatedly warned against allowing the world's standards to redefine the gospel. One especially powerful concept from him is when he said, in moments of fear or doubt or troubling times, hold the ground you have already won. You see, that fits beautifully in this discussion because there are people out there trying to erode the standards of God constantly. Look at BYU. There are people, a large group of people, that went to a school with an honor code that you have to agree to to attend the school. It's a religious school, and they went there with a specific purpose to try to get rid of the honor code. It's sad. Modern morality doesn't usually attack us with the words reject God. It often begins subtly. They say everybody does it. It's not really that bad. Nobody will know. It's your business. Times have changed. And when that happens, if you listen to that, you surrender ground one compromise at a time. You compromise your honor, your integrity, your character. And I can attest when you start doing that, it's a slippery slope. When
I'm flying an airplane, I don't look at the instrument panel and say, these instruments are restricting my freedom. The instruments are telling me what reality. They're telling me where to go, how to get there safely. Altitude, airspeed, heading, fuel, engine performance, weather. The airplane doesn't care what I feel is true. Heck, I've been in situations where my body felt like it was straight and level, but the plane was diving sideways, and you had to trust the instruments. See, gravity doesn't negotiate. Gravity has a PKI pilot kill ratio of one, meaning it wins every time. Reality always wins. Morality works the same way. God's commandments aren't arbitrary restrictions. They're instruments of the soul. They tell us where we are, where we're going, when we're getting into danger, and sometimes the warning comes before we can even see the danger. That's personal revelation. That's faith. That comes from faith. The Book of Mormon gives us a great example. King Benjamin teaches his people about righteous living. Then something happens. In Mosiah 2.41, we read, Consider on the blessed and happy state of those that keep the commandments of God. Notice what words he uses. He says, the blessed and happy. So in my last episode, I talked about the pursuit of happiness, right? Well, King Benjamin just gave us the rules right there. Keep the commandments and become blessed and happy. God's moral law isn't opposed to happiness, it's the pathway to lasting happiness. The world promises pleasure now, happiness later. Christ teaches righteousness now, peace, strength, and lasting joy. Those are not the same things. Pleasure and joy. Totally different.
So we live in a digital age. Our ancestors could do something wrong. We can do something wrong privately, instantly, globally, anonymously, repeatedly, and with an algorithm encouraging us to do more of it. Think about how people act online. Think about how people talk to each other online. Technology didn't change human nature, it amplified it. The temptation that once required effort can now appear in your pocket. A lie can reach millions, a corrupt idea can become entertainment. A private weakness can become an addiction. A moment of anger can become permanent digital evidence. And artificial intelligence is going to make this even more complicated because it can make the lie look real. We're entering a world where we need more discernment, not less. More self-control, more honesty, more integrity, more ability to distinguish truth from manipulation. Because deep fakes, false information. Things can show up now that look completely real and are not. That's the moral question. The key is, how are you when nobody's watching? How are you when you're anonymous? That's the real test of character. What do you do when nobody knows? That's where discipleship becomes real. Joseph in Egypt could have rationalized his decisions. David could have rationalized his. Nephi could have rationalized his. Moroni could have rationalized his. And then he wouldn't have had the atonement. But righteousness often means saying, I could do that, but I won't. That's moral agency, and that is strength. Moroni saw our day. He wasn't writing exclusively for his generation, he wrote for ours. He said in Moroni 8.35, Behold, I speak unto you as if you're present, and yet ye are not. He saw our future society. Nephi saw our future society. Enoch saw our future society. A technologically advanced society, a society with tremendous knowledge, and he warned us about pride, materialism, rejection of truth, and spiritual blindness. That should make us stop and ask, what did Moroni see that looks like our world?
So here are seven moral battlegrounds that we've been going through. Truth. Do I believe truth exists outside of my feelings? Integrity. Am I the same person privately that I am publicly? Sexual purity. Do I treat my body and the bodies of others as sacred? Or do I make sex the entirety of my being? Words. Do my words build or destroy? Money. Does money serve me or control me? Power. How do I treat people who cannot benefit me? And self-control. Can I say no to something I want? Because here's the thing. A person who cannot say no is not truly free. They may have unlimited choices, but they are controlled by appetites. Christ had a moral code. He reduced the moral life to something incredibly simple. Love God, love your neighbor. Everything else flows from those two commandments. And this gives us a powerful definition of morality. Morality isn't simply following the rules, it's becoming the kind of person who naturally chooses to follow the rules because you love God and you love people. That is the transformation behind the gospel. Personal revelation is your guidance to live a moral life. You don't have to navigate this crazy modern world alone. Moroni 10 5 says, by the power of the Holy Ghost, you may know the truth of all things. In an age where we have information overload, being able to know the truth of all things, being able to discern, the Holy Ghost doesn't just tell us what is true. He helps us recognize what's true, what's false, what's good, what's dangerous, what's righteous, and what is counterfeit. So our founding fathers want a government based upon self-government. And Christianity teaches something even deeper. Before you can govern a nation, you have to learn to govern yourself. Can I govern my anger? Can I govern my appetite? Can I govern my sexuality? Can I govern my spending, my tongue, my thoughts, my ego, my desires? Because if I can't govern myself, eventually somebody or something will govern me. That's why moral discipline isn't weakness. Moral discipline is freedom. So
here's Ten Commandments for modern life. It's not the Ten Commandments, but here are Ten Commandments for modern life. I will seek truth even when truth challenges me. I will not call something good simply because I desire it. I will judge my own behavior before demanding judgment of others. I will keep my promises. My word is my bond, right? I will protect the sacredness of my body and the bodies of others. I will control technology rather than allowing technology to control me. I will tell the truth when lying would be easier. I will treat people with dignity even when I disagree with them. I will choose eternal consequences over temporary pleasure. And number 10, I will ask God what is right rather than asking the world what is acceptable. Maybe the question isn't how much freedom should I have. A better question is, what kind of person must I become to handle freedom responsibly? Because freedom without character becomes chaos. Knowledge without wisdom becomes dangerous. Power without morality is destructive. The founders understood it, the scriptures warned us about it, modern prophets continue to teach it, and Christ admonished it and demonstrated it. So maybe having a moral code isn't about becoming less free, it's becoming free enough to choose what is right. The world is going to keep changing, that's guaranteed. Technology will change, politics will change, culture will change. Definitions of acceptable behavior will change, but truth doesn't change just because culture does. Neither does the character of God. So when everyone around us starts telling us there is no absolute right or wrong, you decide your own truth. If it feels good, do it. Everybody does it. You can say no. No is a real powerful word. I know who I am. I know who I follow. I know what I believe, and I know the difference between freedom and captivity. I don't want to merely live in a free country, I want to become a free man or woman. And according to Jesus Christ, if the Son therefore shall make you free, you shall be free indeed. That's the kind of freedom worth fighting for. This has been Todd Talks, Spirit by Design. If
you enjoyed this, subscribe. Leave a five-star review. Donate to the show. Do what you need to to continue to receive positive spiritual messages to help you become the person that will be happy and excited and ready for the second coming of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. As always, have a blessed day.